AI can write your posts, emails, and web pages, but out of the box it sounds like everyone else. This guide shows you how to turn your own writing into a one-page voice guide, test it, and save it so any AI tool writes like you from the first draft.

Before you start
- Five to ten things you wrote yourself: customer emails, social posts, your About page, a newsletter, even a long text to a client.
- The AI tool you write with (ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, or similar).
- A notes app or document where you can keep the finished guide.
- About 30 minutes.
Want to do it yourself?
- Difficulty
- 4 out of 10
- Estimated completion time
- 45–90 minutes
Skills you’ll need: Choose representative writing, describe your tone, and test the resulting voice guide on real drafts.

How this helps your brand
A shared voice guide helps your website, posts, and customer emails sound like the same business. Using real writing samples keeps consistency grounded in how you actually communicate.
Step 1: Gather writing that already sounds like you
Real examples teach AI far more than words like “friendly” or “professional”. Everyone says they are friendly. Your examples show what friendly means for you.
Pick pieces you wrote yourself, without a copywriter or AI. Go for variety, so the AI sees how you sound in different moments:
- A reply to a happy customer.
- A reply to an unhappy one, or a polite “no”.
- A post or email that got a good response.
- Something that explains what you do, like your About page.
Tip: Paste them all into one document, with a short label above each one, such as “Email to a customer” or “Facebook post”.
Step 2: Take out anything private
Before you paste anything into an AI tool, remove customer names, phone numbers, email addresses, and prices or details you wouldn’t post publicly. Replace them with [customer] or [price].
The AI only needs to see how you write, not who you wrote to.
Step 3: Ask the AI to describe your voice
Paste your examples into a new chat along with the prompt at the end of this guide. It asks the AI to study your writing and turn it into a one-page voice guide.
The prompt tells the AI to base everything only on your examples. Without that, it tends to fill gaps with generic advice that doesn’t sound like you at all.
Illustrated exampleTurn real phrases into specific voice rulesExample business: a local repair shop
- Happy customer reply
Thanks for the kind words! Glad we could help.
- Warm, without fuss
Thank people in plain words. Keep it short.
- Polite no
We can’t fit that in today. Shall we look at next week?
- Direct and helpful
Say what we can’t do, then offer a next step.
- About page
We fix what’s broken. We explain what it needs.
- Short and conversational
Use “we”, everyday words and contractions.
No example to support a rule? Ask instead of guessing.
These invented repair-shop samples show how to ground each rule in evidence. Use five to ten pieces of your own writing and ask the AI to explain which phrases support its description. - Happy customer reply
Step 4: Edit the guide until it sounds right
Read the voice guide out loud. If a line makes you think “that’s not me”, change it or delete it. You know your voice better than any AI does.
Then add the things only you know:
- Words you never want used, like “synergy” or “game-changer”.
- How you refer to your business: “we” or “I”, your full name or a nickname.
- Facts the AI should never make up, such as prices, guarantees, or opening hours.
Step 5: Test it on a real task
Start a fresh chat, paste in your voice guide, and ask for something you actually need, like a short post about your next offer or a reply to a common customer question.
If the draft still sounds generic, point to the exact line that’s off and explain why. Then add that lesson to your voice guide, so you only have to say it once.
Tip: Two or three test rounds is usually enough. The guide should fit on one page; if it grows longer, the AI starts skipping parts of it.
Illustrated exampleFix a line, then save what you learnedFresh-chat test · reply to a repair enquiry
01 · First draftWe would be delighted to assist you with your repair requirements.Your feedback“Delighted to assist” sounds too formal. We’d say “happy to help”.
02 · Revised draftHappy to help. What needs fixing?
03 · Add the lesson to your voice guideUse “happy to help” instead of “delighted to assist”. Ask one simple follow-up question.
Use the updated guide in the next fresh-chat test.
Point to the exact phrase that feels wrong, explain what you would say and add that lesson to the one-page guide. A better draft is useful; a better saved rule helps every later draft. Step 6: Save it where your AI tool will use it
Keep the finished guide in your notes so you can paste it at the start of any writing request, in any tool.
To save pasting it every time, most AI tools have a place for standing instructions or a dedicated workspace. ChatGPT and Claude call these Projects, and Gemini calls them Gems. Each lets you add instructions that apply to every chat inside them. Menu names change often, so check the tool’s official help pages for the current steps.
Update the guide whenever your business, your offer, or your customers change.
You're done when
- You have a one-page voice guide saved somewhere you can find it.
- A test draft from a fresh chat sounds like you with only small edits.
- The guide is saved in your AI tool’s instructions or project settings, or you know where to paste it from.
Your prompt
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COPY AND PASTE
I want you to learn how I write, so drafts you make for my business sound like me. My business: [what you do and who you serve] Where I mostly write: [for example, emails, Instagram, my website] Here are examples of my own writing: [paste 5 to 10 samples, each with a short label] Study only these examples and write a one-page voice guide that covers: 1. How I sound, in three words, with a short example of each from my writing. 2. Typical sentence length and how formal I am. 3. Words and phrases I use often. 4. Words and phrases I never use. 5. How I open and close messages. 6. Two short examples of generic AI writing rewritten in my voice. Base everything on my examples, not on general writing advice. If something isn’t clear from my examples, ask me instead of guessing. Keep it in plain English and short enough to paste at the start of any chat.
Copy it, swap the highlighted [brackets] for your details, then paste it into ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, or the AI tool you use. Save the guide it gives you; you’ll paste that into later writing requests.
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