Respond to a bad review or angry comment

A one-star review or an angry public comment feels personal, and the urge is to fire back straight away. This guide helps you slow down, check the facts, and write a short, calm reply that shows everyone reading it you’re fair and easy to deal with, then put things right in private.

Before you start

• The review or comment, word for word.
• Your records of what happened: the booking, order, messages, or notes from the job.
• A way for the customer to reach you privately, such as a phone number or email you check.
• Fifteen minutes, and ideally a short break first.
• An AI chat tool such as ChatGPT, Claude, or Gemini for step 3. You can also write the reply yourself.

Want to do it yourself?

Difficulty

4 out of 10

Estimated completion time

20–40 minutes, plus customer follow-up

Skills you’ll need: Write calmly, protect private details, and decide what needs a private conversation or a platform report.

I’ll do it myselfI’d rather get help

How this helps your brand

A calm, specific response shows future customers how you handle a problem. Checking the facts and following through privately helps protect trust without exposing customer information or escalating the dispute.

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   Step 1: Wait before you reply

   Read it twice, then step away for an hour if you can. A reply written in the first five minutes is the one most people regret.

   While you wait, check your records. Write down, in a few lines, what actually happened from your side. Separate the facts from the tone: an angry review can still point to a real problem.

   Tip: Don’t leave it for days, though. A calm reply within a day or two shows you’re paying attention.

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   Step 2: Remember who you’re really writing for

   The person who left the review may not change their mind. But every future customer who reads it will also read your reply, and they’re deciding whether you’re someone they want to deal with.

   A short, polite reply that takes the problem seriously usually does more for your reputation than winning the argument.

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   Step 3: Write a short public reply

   Paste the review and your facts into an AI tool with the prompt at the end of this guide. It gives you three options. Pick the one that sounds most like you and edit it. A good reply does four things:

   • Thanks them for taking the time to say something.
   • Names the specific problem, so they know you actually read it.
   • Says what you’re doing about it, or what you’ve changed.
   • Offers a private way to carry on: “Please call me on [number] so I can put this right.”

   Tip: Never share anything about the customer in your reply: no order details, appointment dates, or what they bought. Even if they mentioned it first, a public reply isn’t the place.

   Illustrated exampleFour sentences that do four jobs

   ★☆☆☆☆Example review

   “Kept waiting and nobody told me what was happening. Really frustrating.”

   A calm owner reply4 sentences

   1. 1

      Thanks for letting us know.

      Thank themStart without getting defensive.
   2. 2

      I’m sorry you were left waiting without an update.

      Name the problemShow that you read the review.
   3. 3

      We’re adding a delay-update check to our daily routine.

      Say what will changeUse a fix you can actually deliver.
   4. 4

      Please email [email protected] so I can help put this right.

      Continue privatelyGive one clear way to reach you.

   No customer names, booking dates, or order details.

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   Step 4: Leave out the things that make it worse

   Before you post, read your reply out loud and cut anything on this list:

   • Arguing about details in public, even if you’re right.
   • Sarcasm, or “as we already explained”.
   • Blaming the customer, a staff member, or a supplier by name.
   • Long explanations. Three or four sentences is plenty.
   • Offering a discount or refund in public, which invites more of the same.
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   Step 5: Follow up privately and put it right

   Do what your reply promised. Call or message them, listen, and offer a fair fix if one is due. Keep a note of what you agreed.

   If it’s resolved, it’s fine to thank them and let them know they’re welcome to update their review. Don’t pressure them, and never offer something in return for changing or removing it. Platforms don’t allow that.

   Illustrated exampleMove the details into a private conversation

   Public replyEveryone can read it

   “Please email [email protected] so I can help put this right.”

   Keep the invitation public. Keep the customer’s details private.

   The customer gets in touch

   Private follow-upOne-to-one conversation

   1. Listen and check

      “Can you talk me through what happened?” Check the details privately.

   2. Agree a fair fix

      Example: offer to redo the work, if that is appropriate. Agree when it will happen.

   3. Do it and keep a note

      Record the agreed fix and whether it was completed.

   Once resolvedThank them. They’re welcome to update their review; offer no reward and apply no pressure.

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   Step 6: Report it only if it breaks the rules

   If a review is fake, from someone who was never a customer, abusive, or shares private information, report it through the platform’s own process instead of arguing in the replies. A review you simply disagree with usually won’t be removed.

   • Google Business Profile: you can report a review from your profile. Search Google’s help pages for “report inappropriate reviews” to see the current steps and what counts.
   • Facebook: look for the option to report a recommendation or comment on your Page.
   • Instagram, TikTok, and LinkedIn: you can hide, delete, or report comments on your own posts. Hide a comment only if it breaks the rules. Hiding fair criticism often makes people angrier.

   Tip: If a review includes threats or anything you think may be illegal, keep screenshots and get proper advice before you reply.

I run [what your business does]. A customer left this review or comment on [platform]:
[paste the review or comment, with the customer’s name taken out]

What actually happened, from our side:
[the facts, in a few lines]

What I can offer to put it right: [for example: a call to talk it through, a redo, a refund, or “nothing yet”]
How they can reach me privately: [phone number or email]

Please write three possible public replies, each under 80 words:
1. Warm and personal.
2. Brief and professional.
3. One that names a specific fix.

Each reply should thank them, name the specific problem without arguing, and invite them to continue privately. Don’t admit to anything that isn’t in my facts, don’t share any details about the customer or their order, and don’t offer a discount or refund in public. Write in plain English that sounds like a real person, not a company statement.

Then tell me in one line which reply you’d choose for a stranger reading it later, and why.